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For some men in a wife led marriage they will find that after marriage their partner still will date and sleep with other men. This does not mean all women in a wife led marriage date other men, but some do. The wife may only occasionally date other men, but some women will date a lot of men outside the marriage. Some wives may prefer to only date on a casual basis with other men but some will like to have several long term relationships with men outside the marriage. It is generally accepted that the husband will know and agree to his wife dating other men. The wife will sometimes like to introduce her lovers to her husband.
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Looking for some advice. As an aside, their is a fetish that is essentially cuckolding without humiliation. Be prepared that if it happens, you may react in a more negative way than you expected.
It's someone who gets turned on knowing they have someone that other people want. I've heard it called "hotwife". Created Mar 2, Top posts october 8th Top posts of october, Top posts Back to Top. People do this all the time at clubs.
Wife dating other men
Then talk some more. Found the internet! Just ask, does she want to open up and date others in a general casual way which allows for ongoing contact but no intent to develop a close relationship escalator bond. I wish! I would be careful because it sounds more like a fetish than anything else.
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Experience: i'm married but sleep with other men
I would like my wife to date other people. However, over the past few years I have been fantasizing about my wife dating and having a boyfriend or boyfriends. There's all sorts of things you can do to simulate the excitement you're looking for with a little imagination. Got it. She has to be genuinely enjoying it for you to have compersion in it.
This subreddit discusses news, views, and issues around polyamory, polyfidelity, poly people, and related issues. Keep talking. You could film yourselves fucking and she could call you by another name and you can watch the video later.
I would like my wife to date other people. looking for some advice.
I just want to make it abundantly clear that I would be enthusiastically supportive if she did. Maybe even pick up some literature about polyamory and open relationships. You are under no obligation to fuck strangers, ever. I think the word compersion, which is new to me, reflects my feelings about my wife dating.
What happens when a married woman goes on tinder?
I think you need to examine very carefully why you feel compelled to violate your wife's boundaries when she already said no, by bringing it up again. It might make her uncomfortable and make this a bad option.
She could have you in panties in no time! No I don't think it's compersion because she has given zero explicit indication she actually wants this at all. Originally she was taken aback and said no way. It's not good to force her into something that she doesn't want to do.
Any advice on how to proceed? You would have to be really sure about this one, though. Sometimes it feels great just as you expected and sometimes feelings surprise us. Have you considered roleplay? Pressuring someone else to date people, intentionally or unintentionally, doesn't seem very healthy to me. Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person. You can dream up scenarios where a guy she was having an affair with might meet her, how you might connect, where you might fuck.
Woman who dates other men while boyfriend is at work divides opinion online
Posted by 3 years ago. Continue this thread. No means no.
Like it would give me joy and also some arousal to know she was with other people. That's a little bit different, as exhibitionism isn't hotwifing, but you might find attention paid to your wife by other dudes to be a turn-on.
Do i owe it to my wife to let her sleep with a more well-endowed guy?
I told her about this a few years ago. You can do all those things with her while pretending you're someone else.
So enough people are in here telling you that your wife seems not that in to the idea of actual non-monogamy, and I think they're spot-on right. Right now you are projecting and getting excited by a fantasy.
Interesting ideas. I was hearing more of a maybe than a no. She may feel creeped out by the very idea of other men paying attention to her.
Can a sexual 'hall pass' be good for a long-term relationship?
If your partner is amenable, you could also go to a swingers club or party, but only fuck each other. Be careful what you wish for. But I think she has warmed up to the idea and sometimes jokes about it or brings it up in casual conversation, even around our family.
We have been monogamous so far. I feel like if I opened that door, she would walk through it. Maybe she would do it as fantasy fulfillment for you, not herself. I should mention that I would like to remain monogamous with my wife with her being the only one seeing other people.
You could both pretend you're someone else. Reply Share. I am in an excellent marriage.