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Court cases Childhood memory keeps haunting me. You need to report back to the HV and give them your notes, including those of him staring, interfering, harassing and aggressive. In my opinion he was only complaining because i wouldn't have that over friendly neighbor relationship with him that he wanted.
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I feel so thick all the time. Staring is not harassment sorry. He also has come outside when i was outside talking to a friend. They're horrible I'm trying g to move because I just can't cope with being watched.
I complained to the HA and said i had him on camera i didn't really and i will be going to the police if he doe not stop. Have you tried just telling him outright that he's making you feel uncomfortable? Its more annoying then anything, i know i cannot report him to the police for staring but i am trying SO HARD not the scream at him and i know that is what he wants so he can play the victim.
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Advice please Carbon Monoxide alarm keeps beeping?!! There is no law that says you have to answer a knock at the door - if you don't want to, you don't have to It has been my experience that some older people like to believe that anyone under 40 cannot possibly function without the involvement of an older and supposedly wiser person in their lives He is coming across as someone who is extremely annoyed that some cheeky young whippersnapper is not doing as they are told As you say, the idea that someone who is much older than you is somehow not capable of being unpleasant just does not make sense.
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Court cases social services making me choose. Period or spotting every 2 weeks? Brother in law made a pass at me today. But he has started with his stares and he still complains, it is made up complaints.
He can stare at you for all he wants and does not need blinds or nets sorry. I would just develop a thick skin if it annoys you. Best wishes. He stopped knocking on my door but then he started with following me to the end of the road and spying on me. Tell them what he's doing. It got to much and I started ignoring my door, he would knock nearly everyday and this is when the complaints came.
In answer to Andrew B It is just the staring annoying her.
Dad keeps breaking contact order! Problem with on going neighbor harrassment. Andrew B My father had to stare to focus and just watched what was going on as there was not much else to do.
The HA just ignore him now. I'm not saying befriend him but be nice You never ever know when you may need his help yourself. I think you may be being a bit harsh, at least have a conversation with him before you completely write him off as he might be a really nice guy. Court cases Advice please Help See chat rules. Court cases My 2 year old gets up at 5am every morning - help! My grandmother lived to be 93 and managed to keep up her campaign of obvious dislike against anyone who would not believe her lies or do as they were told almost right up until the end of her life I know that this is easier said than done, but I would suggest that you try to ignore him as much as possible.
I know if i was a male he wouldnt be so brazen to try bully me. I keep curtains drawn even in the day if I'm here because she's said she watches the kids through the windows Search for a thread. Need help!! He actually does have mental health issues as the police informed me but talking to him is out of the question. Court cases I feel so thick all the time. See last answer.
Also contact the police. This is harassment and you should write down everything that happened. Whilst he did not know of the death he had no right to harass me and stress me out because i did not wish to answer my door to him. A couple weeks ago i had new bins delivered and was with the delivery man trying to separate the bins and he comes and offers help, i then say to the delivery man i am going inside and any problems call me and neighbor is trying to get involved and talk to me which i of course ignore him and again he is staring at me as i walk up the stairs.
I have no interest in communicating with such a scumbag.
Court cases Period or spotting every 2 weeks? Since i moved in he made my life hell with complaints. When i first moved in as i said he made my life hell and i was very vulnerable, pregnant and my mother suddenly died. Court cases Neighbour making false allegations.
Neighbour making false allegations. The fact that the housing authority no longer react to his complaints says it all really Clearly you are someone who values your home and the privacy that goes with it highly and there is nothing wrong with that. Your browser cannot play this video. Those are not expensive. Maybe he has learning difficulties or is autistic and wants to make friends but doesn't understand the social cues that most of us take for granted. My 2 year old gets up at 5am every morning - help! Just if you got to know him a little bit then maybe you'd understand a bit more about him and talk to him easily about the behaviours that make you uncomfortable.
Neighbor keeps staring at me every time he see's me, It is making me uncomfortab.
He is nothing but a nasty bully, how can you bully someone because they dont want to speak to you? In answer to Zoe55tyr.
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Try to get a camera installed, maybe use a spy camera to wear. So today I left my house and he was outside cleaning up and i could see him in my car reflection i was getting into my car and he stopped what he was doing to stare at me.
So he stopped following me. Being annoyed by our neighbours is something we put up with until they break the law. I believe this as he said to the HA manager how 'close' he was with the last female not sexual who lived in my property and i believe he wanted the same type of relationship with me however I am not okay with that, I am a private person and I like to keep to myself and I don't want anyone I dont know in my flat which he tried to do sometimes is invite himself in.
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I don't have much advice but I know how you feel I have an older couple across the road who kept shutting our cat in. Sarah H Hi Candy I am wondering if the resident in your home moved because she did not really want the kind of relationship he seems to want and had had enough of his trying to involve himself in her life You only have his word for it that this "close" relationship actually existed in the first place.
I think this guy is just lonely or has some mental health problems like another poster said. Childhood memory keeps haunting me. I made it clear I was unhappy and they were upsetting my kids by keeping her locked in and she woman has come over twice shouting at me and upset my little girls and told everyone on the street that I'm the horrible kne and I don't look after my animal they stare if I have any visitors they are even in the windows if I have a takeaway delivered I feel helpless to it cause as you say they're old so everyone thinks they're harmless and a little old couple.
He's your neighbour, rather then coming across a hit harsh and ignoring him just be friendly! He is also agressive and has come in the garden shouting and swearing at me because i opened my window. I complained to the HA and they told him he isn't allowed to knock on my door.
Cheska B. How creepy. I suspect that he is hoping to provoke a reaction from you in order to provide "grounds" for another complaint.